Marriages are made on the Internet???



Today when I opened Rediff, this big pop-up window or screen came up. It has this stupid window saying "GET MARRIAGE PROPOSALS BY EMAIL from Shaadi.Com" I really don't think anyone gets married by sending the resume to someone. Cut the crap man. Do the amma and appa of that South Indian Brahmin everyday pooja doing girl know what the groom was doing all his life??? You never know where the guy would be hanging around before he thinks "Ok I have done everything with every girl in this town, now I should get married to some girl from some where else." You never know its a possibility I say.
See we should all get married (if we want to) by the old fashioned way. Girl meets boy, then the brahma-astra of Mr. Cupid strikes and then.........................................
I am totally against the marriage through internet thing, which is florishing in India like the DotCom boom. I think for marriage love is most important. Moms and Dads should understand that next 50 years of the life when they will not be around, their sons or daughters should have someone to look after him or her. They should look at the girl or guy more than looking at her cast or creed or color of skin or religion.
Well one counter view is also there; which says, its a big business and internet is allowing it to florish and also now you can choose from a huge database of to be brides and grooms. But I am still against it because whats the fun then?? No falling in love?? No fighting?? No roothna manana?? Maza kahan hai yar?? Also I think that the internet thing is for girls and guys who can't chose one for themselves.
Kini has already made it clear to his parents, "Look I am only going to marry after I fall in love with some girl, not just someone whom you say she is ok for me" I hope some day some girl finds him attractive enough to say "Yes Kini darling I do" Till then Kini will kep searching for "The one"
Well these site and business houses will keep florishing in India till Mr. Cupid is busy in other countries.
V...

5 comments:

Priya said...

i hate the concept of shaadi.com and tth sort of crap.. remember tht ad where they say ' come beti the groom is in the bedroom.. girl's puzzled.. and voila boy's on the internet with full sasural watching on webcam '

..p..

ritzkini said...

The "one" ?? ANY ONE !!!
/* situation getting desperate here */
;-)

Sayesha said...

Hahaha... yeah, it's a crappy concept man...

shaadi.com it seems! Even the URL sounds ridiculous!

Sayesha said...

Oye Virdi,

Kitthe hai tu? Pple on my blog are missing you, man!

Virdi said...

Priya>> hehehe.. the girl would have been in a state of shock. that will not happen in your case i guess.
Kini>> put a playcard around your neck. "I WANT A GIRLFRIEND" that may help
Sayesha>> I hate the concept of arranged marriage. where there is no love there should be no marriage. marriages are made in heaven and not with some uncles and aunts running behind you saying marry marry marry... total bakwas hai..
V..

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